I’m a recovering control freak. I’d like to keep the upper hand, but someone always has a little more umph. You know what I’m talking about? My circumstances rarely submit to my commands. Funny how life doesn’t have to listen to you. But, I’m starting to get used to it. And I’m ever-so-slowly learning that […]
Gratitude
Amusing Moments for Dad: Yes, You Are Appreciated!
Okay, let’s be real honest here: fathers often get the rotten piece of the pie. That doesn’t even make sense (who has had rotten pie?), but you know what I mean. The masses applaud moms and say, “Thanks for making the sacrifices, thanks for always being there, thanks for loving me when I wasn’t lovable,” […]
Misery, Party of One, Seeking Company
Self-pity is our worst enemy and if we yield to it, we can never do anything wise in this world. ~Helen Keller Last night I watched a show that involved a man named Charlie. Charlie had been working hard for a group of lawyers who treated him like a peon. He made their coffee runs […]
Diary of a Wimpy Woman: Here by Thy Great Help I’ve Come
Today I graded an essay by a student recounting the powerful experience of seeing God work in Brazil. Along with several other people, he prayed over the locals that were sick, deaf, and incapacitated, and by God’s great power, they were healed. One older man requested prayer and my student laid his hands on the […]
When Poop Hits the Fan
Years ago, my parents’ farming neighbors decided to haul in a massive mound of manure. Why, I never knew. But, living out in the country, surrounded by cows, one takes the risks with smells and such; even so, this stench overreached anything they’d experience. I don’t know if there’s a law about disturbing the peace […]
The Power of Eating Rice & Beans
I grew up “organic” long before it was trendy to do so. My parents gardened and we only got dessert on birthdays or holidays. My husband was also raised to value pure, whole food, and neither one of us were picky kids. Consequently, we spend a little more on groceries than the average family because […]
How to Respond to the “Unhealed”
This Tuesday I wrestled through one of my migraines. Nasty, hateful buggers, they are. As I’ve said before, “bad headache” doesn’t begin to cover the pain associated with one. Nausea, sensitivity to light and inability to move captures more the essence of the beast. Regretfully, I texted my mentor, “I’m not going to be able […]
Bloom Anyway
The joke around here goes something like this, “Only in Missouri can you experience all four seasons…in one week.” As I glance out our back windows, snowflakes swirl around the cherry tree blossoms and tulips in our backyard. Bizarre. Cicero attributed gratitude as the highest form of character. From our thankful hearts all other virtues are birthed. […]
Give Me a Break
Zip through a couple of days that I’d label unsuccessful and the idea of making any more decisions almost seems overwhelming. What book should we study next? Where do you want to meet tomorrow? What time? Do you want one cookie or two? What kind of hot tea do you want? Seriously. I can’t go there right […]